Matt and Sara Brennan speaking at a Christian marriage retreat event 
Marriage Speakers

Matt & Sara
Brennan

YOUR GO-TO TEAM FOR MARRIAGE EVENTS. 

Matt and Sara are united not only in marriage, but also in their calling to speak truth, hope, and practical tools into other couples’ lives. With 20+ years of shared ministry, they speak at marriage retreats, church conferences, and couples’ events across the country.

Their speaking blends biblical truth, real-life vulnerability, and practical tools for connection, communication, and commitment. Their warm and honest style creates a safe space for couples to reflect, laugh, grow, and strengthen their bond.

Whether you’re planning a weekend retreat, a one-night marriage event, or a Sunday morning series, Matt and Sara are your go-to team for creating a transformational experience for couples.

Signature Keynotes and Workshops include:

These are Matt and Sara’s most requested talks at marriage retreats and couples' events—biblical, practical, and refreshingly real.

Good Marriages Aren’t Trouble Free

Based on 1 Corinthians 7:28, “Those who marry will face many troubles in this life,” this message reminds couples that trouble isn’t the sign of a bad marriage—it just means you are married! Healthy marriages aren’t built by avoiding hardship, but by facing it with grace, wisdom, and Christ at the center.

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Key Takeaways: 

  • Reframe conflict as a normal part of marriage, not a red flag

  • Learn how to approach challenges with grace and teamwork

  • Develop the habit of choosing love—daily, intentionally

  • Build a solid foundation that withstands the storms

Don’t Fight Like W.E.N.I.S. (Weenies): Communication & Conflict
This fun and honest talk teaches couples how to recognize toxic conflict styles and trade them for God-honoring, productive communication. With humor and real examples, Matt and Sara help couples move past frustration and toward deeper connection. These negative patterns can include:

  • W- Withdraw

  • E - Escalate

  • N - Negative Interpretation

  • I - Invalidation

  • S - Shifting and Spinning

    Key Takeaways: 

    • Identify unhealthy communication and conflict styles

    • Learn tips and tools to exchange those methods for healthy more productive ones.

    • Gain tools for respectful, clear, Christlike communication

    • Learn to model healthy relationships for the next generation

Marriage & Mercy
In a marriage between two imperfect people, grace isn’t optional—it’s essential. This message centers around forgiveness, mercy, and restoration through the lens of God’s grace.

Key Takeaways:

  • LearLearn to extend and receive forgiveness in marriage

  • See how God's grace transforms both people and relationships

  • Hear personal stories of real conflict, real healing, and real hope

When Marriage and Mental Health Collide:

Drawing from their personal and professional experience, Matt and Sara share a faith-filled perspective on living with mental health challenges in marriage. This talk brings honesty, empathy, and biblical hope to a topic many couples struggle with in silence.

Key Takeaways:

  • Understand how to support a spouse facing mental health struggles

  • Discover how God’s presence remains even in the hard and hidden places

  • Find hope and practical tools for building a strong, Christ-centered marriage in the midst of mental health realities

What People are Saying

“Matt and Sara were such a gift: biblical, warm, authentic, loving, funny, and empowered by the Spirit of the Living God. It was easy to rest in their teaching and their presence. And the love and honor they continued to give one another was so beautiful to witness.”

“The whole conference was helpful to improve our marriage.  So glad that mental health issues were addressed as part of it.”

“Great couple to bring in as the speakers. They hit topics that are important, referenced Bible verses that struck a cord, were friendly outside of the speaking events, and easy to relate to. They brought seriousness and humor which broke the ice.”

Nathan Payne, Executive Director - Camp Zephyr

“20 out of 10! They were absolutely transparent letting us into their own story and wove that, gospel, and other knowledge into a very solid and fruitful retreat program.”

“Matt & Sara’s honesty, humor, openness and vulnerability, and practical tips were very helpful for all marriage challenges.”

“We really enjoyed working with Matt and Sara.  They were super easy going and personable. Our group connected with them so well; they were vulnerable and real while keeping the focus on God’s victories. They brought a good mix of biblical teaching, counseling, and practical advice. We look forward to bringing them back.”

— Simeon Paulson, Ministries Program Manager - Spruce Lake Retreats

Book us to speak at your event!

Whether you're planning a church marriage retreat, a couples' night, or a conference, Matt and Sara would love to partner with you.